NOT AFTER ANYMORE

Hardly the day started and ... it is already six o'clock in the evening.
Barely arrived on Monday and it's already Friday.
... and the month is already over.
... and the year is almost up.
... and already 40, 50 or 60 years of our lives have passed.
... and we realize that we lost our parents, friends.
and we realize that it is too late to go back ...
So ... Let's try, however, to take full advantage of the time we have left ...
Let's not stop looking for activities that we like ...
Let's put color in our greyness ...
Let's smile at the little things in life that put balm in our hearts.
And yet, we must continue to enjoy serenely the time that remains. Let's try to eliminate the "after" ...
I do it after ...
I will say after ...
I will think about it after ...
We leave everything for 'later' as if "after" was ours.
Because what we do not understand is that:
after, the coffee cools ...
after, priorities change ...
after, the charm is broken ...
after, health passes ...
after, the children grow up ...
after, the parents get older ...
after, the promises are forgotten ...
after, the day becomes the night ...
after, life ends ...
And after that it's often too late ....
So ... leave nothing for 'later' ...
Because always waiting for later, we can lose the best moments,
the best experiences,
the best friends,
the best family ...
The day is today ... The moment is now ...

We are no longer at the age where we can afford to postpone until tomorrow what needs to be done right away.
So let's see if you'll have time to read this message and then share it.
Or maybe you'll leave it for ... "later" ...
And you will not share it "ever" ....

A must read👇
Simply too many good wisdom, not to miss.
(01)  人靜時，躺下來仔細想想，人活著真不容易
When you are at ease with yourself, lie down and spare some thought. To live a life is never easy
         明知以後會死，還要努力的活著，人活一輩子到底是為什麼!?
Knowing that we will inevitably die one day, you may ask why are we still striving so hard to live? What is the purpose of our striving so hard to live our life?
複雜的社會，看不透的人心，放不下的牽掛，經歷不完的酸甜苦辣，走不完的坎坷，越不過的無奈，忘不了的昨天，忙不完的今天，想不到的明天，最後不知道會消失在哪一天！這就是人生。
We are living in a very complex society where one can't even predict what others are thinking, and life is full of endless worries, going through endless tribulations that are full of spices of all sorts, encountering endless hurdles in life, at times feeling of hopelessness, and memories of past, and have to endure a busy and taxing today, an unpredictable tomorrow and the irony of not knowing when our lives will come to an end. That is life!
所以再忙再累別忘了心疼自己，一定要記得好好照顧自己！
So remember as busy you are, love yourselves and take good care of yourselves


(02)人生如天氣，可預料，但往往出乎意料!?
Life is just like weather, can make predictions but more often than not, is unpredictable
不管是陽光燦爛，還是聚散無常，一份好心情，是人生唯一不能被剝奪的財富。
Whatever it is, be it a sunny day    or unpredictability of life, to have good attitude and mood everyday is something nobody can denied and deprived you off
把握好每天的生活，照顧好獨一無二的身體，就是最好的珍惜。
得之坦然，失之泰然，隨性而往，隨遇而安，一切隨緣，是最豁達而明智的人生態度。
Be in control of your daily life, take good care of your own health is the most precious thing of all.
Between gains and losses, just accepts it with a good heart without resentment and take it as fateful is the wisest attitude of life


(03)    多好的一段話：
There are many sayings that are full of wisdom
我們都有缺點，所以彼此包容一點.
We all have our shortcomings, so learn to embrace and accept each other's shortcomings
我們都有優點，所以彼此欣賞一點。
We all have our shortcomings in certain aspects and so  be humble and not to be too critical of others shortcomings
我們都有個性，所以彼此謙讓一點。
We all have our individualistic character but must learn how to accommodate one another
我們都有差異，所以彼此接納一點。
We all are different so must learn to accept one another
我們都有傷心，所以彼此安慰一點。
We all have our sad moments in life, so learn to console each other
我們都有快樂，所以彼此分享一點。
We all have our happy moments in life, so learn to share the happiness with one another
因為我們有緣相識，請珍惜生命中的每一位家人、朋友！開心的過好每一天！
Fate brings us together, so learn to treasure every one, be it family members, friends and be happy everyday


(04)    十年後，您把現在的奔馳寶馬給孩子，他們會說太舊了！
If you give your current Mercedes or BMW to your children in 10 years time, they will say the cars are too old
十年後，您把現在的蘋果8S給孩子，他們會說別逗了！
If you give year IPhone 8 to your children in 10 years time, they will say you must be joking
十年後，你躺在病床上抱著一堆存摺，要兒女天天給你把屎端尿，兒女們會說，僱保姆吧！
If In 10 years time when you are unlucky to be bed ridden and holding yr bank deposit books in your hand and ask your children to take care of you, they will ask you to get a maid to take care of you
十年後，你保持了健康的體魄，還能到處旅遊，打拳、跳舞。
您的孩子會說，老爸老媽你們太明智了！
If In 10 years time, you are still healthy and can travel, exercise
and dance, your children will heap praises for you for being a very wise person
●    給孩子最好的禮物是自己的健康！
The best present for your children is to remain healthy at old age
重要的事情，再說一遍，請大家記住最後一句話：
Reiterating the most important thing, please remember it pertinently
●    給孩子最好的禮物是保養好自己的身心健康。
The best present for your children is to remain healthy at old age
●人生就是做好兩件事：
In life, we only need to take care of two things:-
第一，教育好孩子，不要危害社會；
Firstly, educate your children so that they are not a parasite to the society
第二是照顧好自己，別拖累孩子。
Secondly, take care of your own health so that you will not be a burden to your children


(05)    請大家看看，著名的廈門大學教授易中天的一段話，好經典!!
Please take a look at the following classic speech by a professor in XiaMen University
再過若干年，我們都將離去，對這個世界來說，我們徹底變成了虛無。
In no time, we will inevitably come to an end of  our lives and as far as the world is concerned, our physical self will disappear from the universe without traces
●    我們奮鬥一生，帶不走一草一木。我們執著一生，帶不走一分虛榮愛慕。
For all the hard work we put in all our lives and for all the wealth, reputation and accolades that we so treasured in our lives, we will never be able to bring along with us when we depart from this world and our physical self will disappear from the universe without traces
今生，無論貴賤貧富，總有一天都要走到這最後一步。到了天國，驀然回首，我們的這一生，形同虛度!!
In our lives, no matter whether we are rich or poor, we will face the same eventuality, i.e. come to the end of our journey some day. When you look back our lives from the other world, our past lives just like a vacuum in universe, gone without traces
●    所以，從現在起，我們要用心生活，天天開心快樂就好。
So from now onwards, we must  live a purposeful and happy lives
三千繁華，彈指剎那，百年之後，不過一捧黃沙。
In no times when we reach the end of our life journey, all the material aspect of our lives shall disintegrate and turn into a handful of yellow earth

※請善待每個人，因為沒有下輩子。
So we shall treat everyone with kindness as there is no next life to be kind to others


(06)    一輩子真的好短，有多少人說好要過一輩子，可走著走著就剩下了曾經。
Life is short and for the many promises to live a good and purposeful life, we never really get down to do it and before long, it will be too late
又有多少人說好要做一輩子的朋友，可轉身就成為最熟悉的陌生人。有的明明說好明天見，可醒來就是天各一方。
How many of us ever promised ourselves to be a true friends for life and in no times, we became total stranger
所以，趁我們都還活著，戰友、同學、朋友、同事、能相聚就不要錯過，能愛時就認真的愛，能擁抱時就擁入懷，能牽手時就不放開。能玩的時候玩，能吃的時候吃。
So while we are still alive, comrades, old school mates, friends, colleagues, please dun't miss any chance to get together to cherish the love and care, and companionship


(07)    請好好珍惜身邊的人，不要做翻臉比翻書還快的人。
Please treasure all the people that are dearest to you
互相理解才是真正的感情，不要給你的人生留下太多的遺憾。再好的緣份也經不起敷衍，再深的感情也需要珍惜。
Mutual understanding is the essence of real friendship. Please do not live a life full of regrets. Friendship will not last if it is not being treasured
沒有絕對的傻瓜，只有願為你裝傻的人。原諒你的人，是不願失去你。真誠才能永相守，珍惜才配長擁有。
There is no absolute stupid person but pretending to be stupid just for you as friend. Friends who can forgive you just because they treasure the friendship and not wanting to lose you as a friend. It is only because of sincerity and mutual treasuring that you will see a lasting relationship or friendship


(08)    有利時，不要不讓人；有理時，不要不饒人；有能時，不要嘲笑人。
When you are in absolute advantage position, do remember to give others a second chance; when you are have absolute right reasoning, do remember to forgive others; when you have the ability, never look down on others
太精明遭人厭；太挑剔遭人嫌；太驕傲遭人棄。
People who are too smart will be disliked by others; people who are too petty will be despised by others; people who are too arrogant will be dumped by others
●    人在世間走，本是一場空，何必處處計較，步步不讓。
Life itself ultimately is just like vacuum in universe and there is no point to be too petty and calculative.
話多了傷人，恨多了傷神，與其傷人又傷神，不如不煩神。
Mind our language as it will hurt others' feeling. Too much resentment hurts emotionally
一輩子就圖個無愧於心，悠然自在。世間的理爭不完，爭贏了失人心；世上的利賺不盡，差不多就行。財聚人散，財散人聚。
One strives hard to live a life with clear conscience and without much of a guilty feeling.
There is endless arguments as to who is right and who is wrong and too much arguments will not win one's heart
Be contented with your wealth as greed is insatiable.
Friends who are poor always become close buddy and vice versa
(09)    心幸福，日子才輕鬆；人自在，一生才值得！
When your heart is at peace, every day is a happy day.
When you are at peace with yourself, it is a life worth living
●    想的太多，容易煩惱；在乎太多，容易困擾；追求太多，容易累倒。
When you think too much, you will become too worrisome
When you are too particular on thing, you will become troubled emotionally
When you are chasing too much of material wealth, you will be become tiresome emotionally
好好珍惜身邊的人，因為沒有下輩子的相識！好好感受生活的樂，因為轉瞬就即逝！好好體會生命的每一天，因為只有今生，沒有來世。
Treasure the people close to you in life as it is fate that bring you all together as you will not have a second chance
Try your best to live a happy life every single day as before you realize it, we have reached the end of our journey
Try you best to experience the everyday life as we only have the current life, there will not be a second life
這是一篇難得的絕世好文！
This is a excellent article that is hard to come across
獻給
好弟兄，好姐妹，以及愛我的和我愛的人。
Dedicate this article to all brothers and sisters, and those people that love me and I love
讀過的，若能再讀一次，
沒准讓你自己體會人生真諦。
發過的，不妨再發一次，
或許給有緣人打開心靈
窗扉。
After reading this article, no harm reading a second time to experience the real meaning of life

Beautiful 10 lines

✒SOMEONE HAS WRITTEN THESE 10 BEAUTIFUL LINES. READ and TRY  to UNDERSTAND the DEEPER MEANING of THEM.

  1). PRAYER is not a "spare wheel" that YOU PULL OUT when IN trouble, but it is a "STEERING WHEEL" that DIRECT the RIGHT PATH THROUGHOUT LIFE.

 

2). Why is a CAR'S WINDSHIELD so LARGE & the REAR VIEW MIRROR so small? BECAUSE our PAST is NOT as IMPORTANT as OUR FUTURE. So, LOOK AHEAD and MOVE ON.

 

3). FRIENDSHIP is like a BOOK. It takes a FEW SECONDS to BURN, but it TAKES YEARS to WRITE.

 

4). All THINGS in LIFE are TEMPORARY. If they are GOING WELL, ENJOY them, they WILL NOT LAST FOREVER. If they are going wrong, don't WORRY, THEY CAN'T LAST LONG EITHER.

 

5). Old FRIENDS are GOLD! NEW friends are DIAMONDS! If you GET a DIAMOND, DON'T FORGET the GOLD! To HOLD a DIAMOND, you ALWAYS NEED a BASE of GOLD!

6). Often when WE LOSE HOPE and THINK this is the END, GOD SMILES from ABOVE and SAYS, "RELAX, SWEETHEART; it's JUST a BEND, NOT THE END!"

 7). When GOD SOLVES your PROBLEMS, you HAVE FAITH in HIS ABILITIES; when GOD DOESN'T SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS, HE has FAITH in YOUR ABILITIES.

 8). A BLIND PERSON asked GOD: "CAN THERE be ANYTHING WORSE THAN LOSING EYE SIGHT?" HE REPLIED: "YES, LOSING YOUR VISION!"

 

9). When   YOU PRAY for OTHERS, GOD LISTENS to YOU and BLESSES THEM, and SOMETIMES, when you are SAFE and HAPPY, REMEMBER that SOMEONE has PRAYED for YOU. 

 

10). WORRYING does NOT TAKE AWAY TOMORROW'S TROUBLES; IT TAKES AWAY today's PEACE. 

chen lang

Li Ka-shing Feng Shui master Chen Lang's last words before his passing to unveil the real secret of wealth!
Hello, everyone. Today we share with you Mr. Chen Lang's last rites. It will be very rewarding.

When Li Ka-shing was 30, he started some small businesses in Hong Kong. One day he met Chen Lang, Chen Lang read his future/fortune. Then Chen joked and asked “How much wealth do you wish and be satisfied with in the future?” Li Ka-shing told him “I would be satisfied with 30 million.” Chen Lang told him that the treasure trove of his life is not flat, but overflowed. He will surely be the richest man in Hong Kong!
Besides that, many renowned figures in Hong Kong have consulted Chen Long to read their fortune include Lee Shau Kee, Cheng Yu-tung, Carina Lau, Cheung Siu-wai, Yeung Shu-shing, Yung Cho-erh, Nicholas Tse, Lai Chi-chi and Lo Leung-wai. In addition, there is the King of Thailand, former Indonesian President Suharto.
Many years ago, Chen met a young man at dinner and told an entertainment business owner, Yang Shoucheng, that this young man will be very popular and advised Yang to engage the young man. Later, this young man joined and he is the famous Nicholas Tse.
Chen Lang died in a nursing hospice on 29 January 2007 at the age of 78. During Chen Lang's final days, it is clear that many rich and famous respect the "Imperial Feng Shui Master".

Before his death, the tycoons visited him in the hospice several times in private, he explained why he helped these people to get rich and the secret to wealth.
The following is what Chen said during his final days at the hospice:
1. Chen Lang:
Why did I help you? Because you can help more people.

2. Chen Lang:
In fact, people gain wealth is not due to the blessings of this lifetime only. You have been blessed with many lifetimes of good deeds, filial piety, respect for your teachers, and being generous to all living beings. Only then you may be blessed (wealth and position).

3. Chen Lang:
Nowadays, often enough people are oblivious and take the wrong path, trying to make money by dirty tactics because they don't know that these things are just karma. Truth is, you will need to gain good karma from continuous good deeds, or else, I won’t be able to help you.

4. Chen Lang:
Why do I have to suffer now (in Hong Kong, I've had three operations and in a lot of pain). Though it’s out of good will, I helped you to change your destiny and facilitate early success in your life so you can help others, this is after all contrary to God’s will. Thus, I am punished by God, God has his own reason.

5. Chen Lang:
To be successful, one has to have good karma. The Chinese say that "amity makes wealth" is the wisdom accumulated over thousands of years, you have to be sincere and pleasant to everyone. From there, these people will help you succeed. Never be arrogant as arrogance will ruin your good karma.

6. Chen Lang:
You have to take the right path in business, being successful will happen sooner or later. Do not be too anxious. Being direct and honest is good quality to have in business. Set a good example to be others role model. Do not go astray, otherwise your blessing will be quickly ruined.
7. Chen Lang:
The world is now full of evilness, people will do anything to gain fame, status and wealth. The problem lies in the absence of religion, self respect , ethics, morale, justice etc. If we want to keep our wealth for more generations to come, it is important to be spiritual and learn these good quality from the teaching

8. Chen Lang:
You (the rich and famous) have a lot of influence. Build good schools, train good teachers, and practice all these good qualities in life. Once the country is stable, everyone will be good. This is the greatest blessing in this world and the greatest seed anyone can do to the nation. Whoever does it will benefit himself, and he will be rich and powerful for many generations.
When you have finished reading this article, you have two options:
1. You can spread the word, spread some positive information and love.
2. You may choose to ignore

high tension

MUST READ

Can electricity enter our body through the flash of a  digital camera?
Yes 100% it can happen.
This is a true incident, which happened with a 21 year old boy studying engineering.
He died in Keshwani Hospital. He was admitted in the hospital in burnt conditions.
The reason:: He went to Amrawati on a study tour.  While coming back, he was waiting for train at railway station along with his friends.
Many of them were taking group photo in their mobiles with digital cameras.
This boy was also there and trying to take group photo. From where he was standing, he couldn't  cover the group. So he went a little back.
The place where he was standing, an electric wire with 40,000 volt was running  atop.
As soon as he pressed the button of digital camera, the electricity of 40,000 volt
entered the camera through the flash, then the fingers and then the whole body.
All this happened in a few seconds. 50% of his body was burnt. In that condition he was brought to Keshwani Hospital, and then to Mumbai in an ambulance.
He was unconscious for 1 and 1/2 days. As his body was 50% burnt, doctors were having less hope for him. Later on he died.
This can happen to anyone as we all use mobile. Are we learned and responsible ?
# Avoid using mobiles at petrol pumps.
# Avoid using mobiles when u r driving.
# When mobile is charging don't receive call.
# 1st remove the charger pin and then receive the call.
# pls don't use mobile/digital camera-flash at railway stations or any other place, where there is a High Voltage electricity transmission wire.
This is for your safety.
After reading pls share it.
Because of this some ones life can be saved.
Very imporant msg for all

condom

Peter goes into a pharmacy and says to the pharmacist
"Hello, could you give me condom? I'm going to my girlfriend's place for dinner and I think I may be in with a chance!"
The pharmacist gives him the condom and as Peter was going out he returns and says,"Give me another condom because my girlfriend's sister is very cute too. She always crosses her legs in a provocative manner when she sees me and I think I might strike a luck there too."
 The pharmacist gives him a second condom and as Peter was leaving again he turns back and says "Give me one more condom because my girlfriend's mum is still pretty cute and when she sees me she always makes eye contact and since she invited me for dinner I think she is expecting me to make a move.
 During dinner, Peter sat with his girlfriend on the left, the sister on his right and the mum facing him. When the Dad walks in, Peter lowers his head and starts the dinner prayer."Dear Lord, bless this dinner and thank you for all u've given us".
Ten minutes after, peter was still praying "Thank you Lord for your kindness. ...."
Ten minutes go by, and Peter is still praying, keeping his head down, very close to the table. They all looked at each other surprised, and his girlfriend was even more surprised than others. She gets close to him and whispered, "I didn't know you were so religious. "Peter with his head still on the table replies, "I never knew your dad was the pharmacist!"
Now dont just laugh....
pass it on..... Iyoyo.

wisdom on sex

1. Kamasutra says : If you suck one nipple, the women herself offers the other one. And that was the origin of "buy one get one free"!
2. Did you ever notice: everything on a woman's upper body starts with a "B". Blouse, Bra, Bikini, Boobs and lower body with a "P" Peticoat, panties, pussy... That's origin of "BP"!
3. Before sex, you help each other get naked. After sex, you dress only yourself. Moral: In life no one helps you once you're fucked.
4. Success is like pregnancy. Everybody congratulates you but nobody knows how many times you got fucked to achieve it.
5. What is the difference between frustration and satisfaction? What the Fuck! and What a Fuck!
6. 3 people having sex is a threesome, 2 is a twosome. So next time someone calls you 'HANDSOME', don't take it as a compliment!
7. Life is like a dick, sometimes it becomes hard for no reason.
8. Practical thought: A husband is supposed to make his wife's panties wet, not her eyes. A wife is supposed to make her husband's dick hard, not his life..!
9. When a lady is pregnant, all her friends touch her stomach and say "Congrats!". But none of them come and touch the man's Penis and say "Well done!".
Moral: Hard work is never appreciated: Only result matters.
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